In so many ways hindsight is a wonderful thing. She can help us to re-assess and make changes. Good adjustments that help us do things better in the future, but from where I sit today, looking at my grown up children, hindsight is not my friend. She can fill my heart with regret. I can quickly go down the road of the could’ve, the should’ve, the would’ve but didn’t. She can make my heart sink and take me to a place where I don’t want to be.